open marriage

just thought i'd share this find with you. fascinating. i agree with the concept: don't hide behind phrases like *responsibility* to or for someone else, sort out your own mess or learn to feel happy with it. what's wrong with an open marriage? it's not have your cake and eat it. it's catering (to stay in the picture) for different needs within one being. one is comfort and belonging within your family, the other is sex. after all, no system is completely closed, sealed, without any interaction with the outside world. doesn't work like that. the one prerequisite to success for an open relationship is that all players know where they stand. they will try and quit when they start feeling uncomfortable with their role, but you cannot always avoid pain.

song of the day: call me